On the eve of America’s birthday, a mega superstar in Kevin Durant made his decision to leave the Oklahoma City Thunder and join a team that won 73 games during the 2015-2016 regular season. He’s going to a team that beat him in the 2016 playoffs, ATFER his thunder team was up 3-1 and only needing one more win to go to the NBA finals.  He was 48 minutes away not one, not two but three times from gong to the NBA finals. KD, a top 3 player in the NBA made a decision in my opinion that is weak and embarrassing for a player of his magnatuide

This decision is nothing in comparisons to Lebron James leaving Cleveland for Miami in 2010. Lebron James left a team where he was the only star player and was getting no help and was not close to winning a championship. KD is leaving a team that has a superstar in Rusell Westbrook. He’s leaving a team that once again was 48 minutes from going to the NBA finals. He is leaving a team that with the new acquisitions should challenge once again for the NBA championship. 

Again to me this is a weak move. I’m not calling KD a weak person I’m just saying his decision to join this team makes him look weak. He left a team that was “his” team to just be on a team. He doesn’t want to be a leader. This move clearly shows that he struggles with pressure. Struggles with expectations to deliver a championship. (That’s about to change though, what do you think they’re going to say about you KD, if Golden State doesn’t win next year). The expectations are still going to be there. This move is like he’s jumping on the bandwagon.  This move clearly earses OKC from championship contenders. Now it’s just the Warriors and Spurs in the west versus Cleveland in the east.  

Kevin Durant is entitled to do whatever he wants. It’s his right. The NBA is getting richer when the new TV deal kicks in this year and beyond. This deal allows teams to stock pile players because the salary cap is going so far north (in the stand point of money increasing) that you can now have 3-4 “true” max contract players on your team. I say true because there’s a lot of players getting max contract that truly are max contract players.  Golden State is in position to pay Klay T., Draymond G., Stephen C. and KD for a long time. This could be a dynasty in the making. 

This move by KD is a product of today’s society. Always taken the easy road. Always wanting everything now and can’t wait. Times definitely have changed. 

Oklahoma stay positive and stay strong all is not lost. You still have a top 5 player in Russell Westbrook…. For one more year at least. 


Free writing 

It’s been awhile since I’ve written to you. In this session I’m writing a “free writing” message. Meaning no editing has taken place. It’s strictly from my thoughts. Hope you understand, but most important I hope you enjoy.

My life has had ups and downs. We know I am not perfect. But for one person I will try. For one person my life will change. For one person he can always depend on me. My wife who is and amazing, strong and incredible women allowed one person to come into this world through a surgical procedure. On the 21st day of the month of May @ 1410 I heard the sound that will stay with me forever. A sound to some people is annoying. A sound to others that means distress. But this sound meant life. This sound sent chills down my spine. This sound brought tears to my eyes. The first breath of a child brings a cry like no other. Because the man above blessed me. Because my wife loves me. I have the strength, the courage, the passion, the love to continue my legacy. I have friends that experienced the experience that I experienced and now I understand. It’s very very hard to put it into words. It’s a feeling or expression you can’t put into words. This can not be described. So to my friends I’m sorry for beer understanding but at the same time how could I?

My little man came into this world 9 pounds and 22 inches long. My man came into his world challenging his pops to take care of him. Feed him. Change him. Bath him. And I went from a non experienced man to a father who’s learning and getting the hang of it. Of course that is until the next day. There’s always something new. And I love it. I love every diaper change. I love every hunger cry. I love every spit up. I love every burp. I love every fart. I love every squirt. I love when you look at me. I love it when your sleeping. For the second time in my life I’m in love. It is my job to protect you. It is my job to teach you right from wrong. It is my job to discipline you when you disobey. It is my job to show you love. It is my job to be the man you want to look up to. It is my job to be your role mode. It is my job get you to the next level of life. As you grow my son I grow. As you learn my boy I learn. Youve only been here a mont but you’ve already become my 2nd best friend. (No disrespect to you tuffy, I know you understand). When you learn you ABC’s I’ll sing.when you take your first step I’ll record it. When you use the toilet I’ll be standing by the door. When you go to kindergarten I’ll take you. When you learn to ride the bike I’ll bring the band aids. When you learn how to drive I’ll pray for my safety. When you begin your legacy I’ll do this all over again. So to the world be patient with me. Be patient with him. Be patient with us. To the world my legacy has begun. And to the world here is my son J3 to me but it’s Jackson to you…

1 to grow on….

I love you Babygirl…

When my legs don’t work like they used to before
And I can’t sweep you off of your feet
Will your mouth still remember the taste of my love?
Will your eyes still smile from your cheeks?

And, darling, I will be loving you ’til we’re 100
And, baby, my heart could still fall as hard at 23
And I’m thinking ’bout how people fall in love in mysterious ways
Maybe just the touch of a hand
Well, me—I fall in love with you every single day
And I just wanna tell you I am

So honey now

Take me into your loving arms

Kiss me under the light of a thousand stars Place your head on my beating heart

I’m thinking out loud
That maybe we found love right where we are

When my hair’s all but gone and my memory fades

And the thought of me not remembering  my name
When my hands don’t touch u the same way
But I know you will still love me the same
‘Cause honey your soul could never grow old, it’s evergreen
And, baby, your smile’s forever in my mind and memory
I’m thinking ’bout how people fall in love in mysterious ways
Maybe it’s all part of his plan
And I’ve been making the same mistakes
Hoping that you’ll understand

But, baby, now

Take me into your loving arms

Kiss me under the light of a thousand stars

Place your head on my beating heart
I’m just Thinking out loud
That maybe we found love right where we are

Happy Anniversary Babygirl!!!

On me

Let me spit for a minute. No disrespect. Just talk.

Another year on my age again
I got a 40 in the fridge again
It’s the season for the gov to be about there Benjamin’s
I remember coming out the jungle from what you call a house I was living in
I’ve been down before but I let the devil know I ain’t giving in
I put God first and he put me back on my shit again
These haters pissed again
They throwing a fit again
But As soon as I win again
They’ll be back on my dick again
I’m just being honest if you can’t handle it then go find a friend

From the Streets Of New York and Texas is where I came from
I fought fire with fire I had to flame up
With time I turn my hell into my heaven that’s right I came up
But I had to kick disloyal subjects out of my kingdom
Whether they hate me or love me they still bring my name up
And that’s all on you so cheer up

I could do this every day and you’ll keep reading and won’t walk away
They want me to change the pace but I’ma do it my type of way
I don’t worry about the things they do or say, It’ll happen anyway
He heals me and protects me so mustn’t I obey
They say I’m a living legend so why is there talks that I should’ve been buried
Let’s get serious that can’t happen yet I just got married

I’m breaking rules cuz this is what I do
I’m chillin here with J’s on my shoes
you know I’m the one you choose
not trying to be rude
but I took you from ur boo
and now you see what I do

If you believe in something stand for it
don’t talk about it be about it
If you don’t know I stand by my peoples
I ride for my fam with no issues
I die for my love ones
I’ll never give up until the day you say we won

Mr. Miller… Jmill…JJMJ….enjoy your day!!!!

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As cool as the other side… Of life

To a man who inspired me
To a man who got me started watching and learning all aspects of sports
To a man who never gave up, never let his illness defined who he was

Thank you mr. Scott! You will be missed. This world lost a good man. ESPN will NEVER be the same! Boo-Ya!

R. I. P. Stuart Scott
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Its the season for love

Mrs. Miller says it best…

Christmas LOVE
Not only at Christmas, but all year long…

As we look back and celebrate 2014, we realize this was a year of love. What better time of year to reflect on true love than at Christmas? Although our love story has no comparison to the love God showered on us with Baby Jesus, we are grateful everyday for the fairy tale God’s hand had in our lives. Never forgetting the true story of Christmas, we will reflect on the memories of 2014 and reminisce of the miracle of Jesus birth.
The Miller’s looked a little like this: the first moment of the year, we “took a dive together”…literally into a 55 deg pool at the strike of midnight to kick off our year under the stars. (The star has great meaning, and even shone bright where our Savior was born). Frantic some might have expected was calm and relaxing for us as we prepared for our wedding. Mind you, we had a year to get all the kinks worked out and details sorted. If any of you know us, we are planners, thus smooth sailing ahead. Time seemed to fly and before we knew it, we were married in a beautiful ceremony on March 28th, the 3rd month of the year. (For those of you who don’t know, “3” is our number…, and three is significant of the wise men who came to celebrate the birth, the birth in manager, in Bethlehem). It was truly fabulous! We are blessed with many friends and family to have made our day unforgettable. For those who shared our moment in person, and those who were in our hearts, we thank you for all your love and support!

Fast forwarding now to somewhere in mid July – James had an opportunity to take a career change. Approached for the 3rd time, he saw this is a sign. Under sleepless nights and fear of the unknown, he stumbled across a “yes” and is now teaching Medical Foundations at Willow Canyon High School. Here he has been able to touch many lives, to “coach from a soap box” in his 40 chair off white classroom, to be the voice of inspiration at sports games, and to have become teacher of the month after having gotten his feet wet, 4 months in. I know the “Scrooge and Santa Claus” moments (that went viral on my Facebook page) had nothing to do with it, but show his love and soul upon which now he is embarking.
I continue to work toward forwarding my career in PT, and in someday owning a clinic. Woman hours have gone to educating the public on functional strengthening and injury prevention, talks on the benefits of physical therapy in any training process – running, sports, cross fit, and simply for the weekend warriors, and the beginning of leadership training. I continue to learn about myself and grow. I couldn’t do it without such a wonderful husband and friend at home, cheering me on along the way, supporting and encouraging me. We are truly blessed to be here! Furthermore, we are blessed that not only this Christmas season, but always – God guides our steps, carries us when we can’t walk, and has given us something greater to be Thankful for at the end of the day, & the finale to the close of the year. Merry Christmas!


ps….I love you Babygirl……